Monday, 18 September 2006
Friends are often lost and found. When we were young, we made friends in kindergarten, primary school, then secondary school, and so on. As time passes, we soon forget them after we leave them over a period of time. this is because we do not get to communicate with them, and due to the communication breakdown over time, we soon completely forget them. Sometimes we may be able to meet them again through various activities. We will find that they have changed a lot since we last met them when they were very young like us. When we try to tighten the friendship again, it may sometimes be quite difficult. This is probably because they have their own friends, which they now feel more comfortable with than being with us. Another reason may be because, over the long time we have gone our separate ways, we never get the chance to meet and catch up. This may cause us to be at a lost for words when we want to talk to them as we have both change a lot in various ways. However, things may be different in some cases. Sometimes the old friends we know still remember us and we do not feel cold talking to each other when we meet again, even if it is over a couple of years. We will find that they may have change a lot, some for the better, and maybe some for the worst. They may also change physically, and some may be so drastic that sometimes we may not recognise them until we recall their names. When we talk about the past, we often laugh about all the funny and weird things we did when we were young. The wonderful moments with them just sound so fun, although it may sometimes be embarrassing if we recall the silly things we did, but never thought we would do.